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Hidden abuse

Imagine: you’re living your life from the assumption you’re operating from free will. That you create your life yourself. That any and all obstacles on your path have manifested from being not strong enough, not determined enough, not clever or cute enough. So every time you encounter one, you try harder. Invisible barrier And you accomplish a lot, but still you keep having this nagging … Continue reading Hidden abuse

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Verborgen misbruik

Stel je eens voor: je leeft je hele leven in de veronderstelling dat je volledig opereert uit vrije wil. Dat je zelf je leven vorm geeft en creëert. Dat alle obstakels op je weg ontstaan uit het feit dat je niet sterk genoeg, niet doortastend genoeg, niet slim of leuk genoeg bent. Dus doe je elke keer dat je iets wilt bereiken nog harder je … Continue reading Verborgen misbruik

Post-traumatic stress disorder – a limiting label?

Labels I don’t like labels. They explain little and stop us from thinking, exploring and understanding. They are like little boxes we put ourselves, others, and issues in. Still, sometimes we need labels in order to create shortcuts in conversation or explanation. Post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD is such a label. Belated symptoms I see a lot of therapy clients who suffer from symptoms one … Continue reading Post-traumatic stress disorder – a limiting label?

Divine Mission Possible blog challenge

Divine Mission-Possible November blog challenge Thank you Linda of Litebeing for this November challenge! I love to participate and tell my story. I would like to invite the wonderful Trini Lindt of The Paths of Spirit to write about her own beautiful mission for this November challenge as well! Mission Impossible I like the idea that started off the Divine Mission – possible blog challenge: … Continue reading Divine Mission Possible blog challenge

Healing the inner wound as a way to spiritual mastery

The wound is the place where the light enters you. Rumi In my therapy practice I often see people who, just like me, began the incarnation process long ago from the desire to heal living beings – and especially those who suffer. This deep desire and the process of incarnation it sets in motion, also brings along with it some pitfalls and obstacles that need … Continue reading Healing the inner wound as a way to spiritual mastery


The key to realise heaven on earth

This is an abbreviated version of the Dutch article ”Three keys to realize heaven on Earth.” It has also been published on the Edge online magazine. Enjoy! The three enemies of humankind Once I read a statement that struck me to the core because it rang so true: “The two greatest enemies of man are guilt and shame.” I would like to address a third … Continue reading The key to realise heaven on earth


Drie sleutels om de hemel op aarde te realiseren

Hoe moeilijk is het eigenlijk om de hemel op aarde te realiseren? Als je om je heen kijkt, is de aarde zo’n prachtige plek, er valt zoveel moois te zien en te beleven. Er is zoveel potentieel voor groei, creativiteit, vreugde… Maar er is ook zoveel pijn, oorlog, strijd en ellende. Wat kunnen we zelf doen om ondanks dit alles de hemel op aarde neer … Continue reading Drie sleutels om de hemel op aarde te realiseren

De verborgen tirannie van de stille narcist

De meeste mensen kennen het prototype van de narcist wel: de persoon met het grote ego en de arrogante houding die altijd in het middelpunt van de belangstelling moet staan en over lijken gaat om aandacht te krijgen. Maar er is een nog gevaarlijker soort narcist wiens sluipende en destructieve gedrag veel langer verborgen kan blijven: de verborgen of sensitieve narcist. Misverstand Het grote misverstand … Continue reading De verborgen tirannie van de stille narcist

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Healers Incognito

When you regard all lifeforms as equal, sentient beings and don’t just pay attention to what your eyes tell you about a person, an animal, plant or mineral but listen to your intuition, you can open the door to some special meetings and experiences. The outer appearance of a living being is not always proportional to their true being and potential. Sometimes the relation between … Continue reading Healers Incognito