Giving love or being love

A lovely blog post by Writing to Freedom got me musing on the subject of love.

Incarnations

Many of my past life therapy clients, when regressed back to the original reason they began the incarnation process, talk of love. They sense the lack of it on Earth or in other dimensions, they feel the suffering because of it, and off they go…. Only to have a rude awakening when they discover, that the beings on the planet are not open to receiving their love at all!

Old souls

‘’Old souls’’ and incarnated angels especially get to deal with this: they want to alleviate suffering, they want others to have the love they have in their hearts, they want them to be happy… but they can’t make them be happy.
It is a funny thing really: we can’t really give others love. We can’t make them love themselves and be happy. We can only ignite the fire of love in their hearts by… being love. Let me explain…

Love incarnate

We are all, in essence, love incarnate. We are divine creative energy. When we lose the connection with our divine self, with Source, with our hearts, is when suffering begins. And no-one’s outstretched hand, however loving, can truly alleviate that suffering. We can only do that by returning to love – and BEing love again.

Twist

Giving or receiving love has a twisty sneaky side to it. It can subtly entail that we somehow lack love, and need it from outside of ourselves, or that we need to give love in order to be worthy… but the truth is, all of us are always, endlessly worthy of love. Not only that… We ARE love.

BEing love

When we incarnate to try and make others happy by loving them, we might get disappointed. But when we incarnate to simple BE love, and inspire others to BE love too, those that are ready to set their hearts ablaze with the pure flame of eternal love begin radiating it too. We can only ever really inspire one another to BE our own eternal divine love. Only then can we truly make each other happy.

© Wendy Gillissen, M.A. 2018
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10 thoughts on “Giving love or being love

  1. Prachtig…………….♥♥♥♥♥♥

    Van: The Company of Spirits Verzonden: vrijdag 23 november 2018 21:22 Aan: a.marijs@kpnplanet.nl Onderwerp: [New post] Giving love or being love

    Wendy Gillissen posted: “A lovely blog post by Writing to Freedom got me musing on the subject of love. Incarnations Many of my past life therapy clients, when regressed back to the original reason they began the incarnation process, talk of love. They sense the lack of it on E”

  2. Loved your post on LOVE Wendy, and once we begin to go within and see the damage we have done by our emotional baggage we carry around believing ourselves unworthy of love you then begin to see that one you let this go, AND really work on your inner child, and love yourself.. It opens up a whole new feeling..
    I have had to do a lot of inner work and still keep working as those old programmes from the past can get triggered unexpectedly..

    The post Brad wrote too was a profound read, He is a beautiful gentle soul.

    Sending well wishes.. ❤

    1. Thank you so much dear Sue! I totally agree, healing our wounded inner child (and past lives) will open us up to the love we are… and so we can be loving towards others. I used to feel frustration when I heard people say ”You have to love yourself” for how can you do that from a wounded inner self? But healing paves the way to love, and then we don’t ”love ourselves”, we EMBODY love… a somewhat different perspective 🙂 Lots of love and a happy weekend, Wendy ♥

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